Who am I?


Hi, I'm Itzel, founder of Attuned Living. And I've been where you are today.


What Makes Me Different

In 2008, I was married, miserable, and feeling hopeless. I tried everything--books, exercises, workshops. My husband and I even did couple's counseling. But nothing seemed to work. After tearfully filing for divorce, I committed myself completely to understanding myself and relationships.

Single and questioning whether a happy and healthy relationship was even possible for me, I studied every teacher, system, and practice that I could get my hands on. But academic experience and formal training weren't enough for me... my own personal experience and transformation were what I was focused on. So I took what worked and tossed what didn't, and my Relationship Transformation System was born. I implemented it all in my own life and--boom--everything in my life changed for the better.


It all started when I was an attorney, working at my dream job and in a committed relationship. But then in 2001, I was dumped by my long-distance boyfriend the same month that the company I was working for dissolved, along with my job. With no job to go to and no partner to call or visit, I had a lot of time on my hands. I threw myself into yoga and meditation and couldn’t believe its healing and transformational effects. I was hooked.

Then in 2008, my world began to fall apart. I ended up getting a divorce, moving out of my beloved home, walking away from my career as a lawyer, and no longer able to ignore the impact of past traumas on my physical, mental, and emotional well-being. I turned to trauma healing practices and again yoga and meditation to heal myself... as well as to every system and practice that I could find to help me heal my relationships with myself and with others, including two different in-depth programs on the study of the mind and human behavior.

Inspired by the positive changes in my own life and encouraged by friends who saw them and wanted to learn how to effect similar changes in their own lives, I entered into two separate certificate programs--one for coaching and one for counseling. I founded Attuned Living in 2010 and have been coaching and teaching people ever since.

How I got here


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Where to find me online


Who I Work With

Inspired by the amazing changes that I saw in my own life, and encouraged by my friends to share what I'd learned with others, I entered into two separate certificate programs--one for coaching and one for counseling--and began sharing my Relationship Transformation System with others. Whether you're single or partnered, if you're feeling dissatisfied with your love life and you know that there must be more, I want to help you avoid the pain I went through. It's my personal mission to increase the amount of LOVE in the world. 


What To Expect

The great thing about the Relationship Transformation System is that the more you put into it, the more you get out of it. You can see my testimonials below to read about my clients' awesome results. But as for me personally, I unlocked the key to love in my own life. I love myself unconditionally. I married my love and best friend. And I have the skills needed to keep love and intimacy in my marriage alive. The skills I've developed are even helping me create an amazing relationship with our three year old son.


What's Next For You

You can get a taste of the Relationship Transformation System by clicking the button below for instant access. At an hour long, it's definitely a commitment. But that hour is a small price to pay to begin bringing the love back into your relationship.

See you there!



What people are saying about me

I highly recommend Itzel. She will help you on your journey. She helped me.
— Anthony in California
Itzel feels like a much-needed partner in the business of life. I am continuing to work with her, and I can’t praise her highly enough.
— Manuella in Washington DC
She brings out the best in me; and in turn, I shine brighter in the world as a direct result of working with Itzel.
— Christopher in New Zealand
Itzel is an absolute delight to work with. She is joyful, kind, wise, and genuinely caring.
— Francesca in San Francisco, California
Itzel’s love for the world that can be—-the one that has the potential to be at its best when it is filled by people striving to be their best—-really comes through and creates very effective coaching that can impact me in ways both pragmatic and sublime.
— Martin in Portland, Oregon
Learning to live again in love is fantastic.
— Shellie in New Orleans, Louisiana